EXPELLED BECAUSE OF HANDS TOUCHING

My boyfriend is being threatened, he's being unjustly penalized and punished.

1.The school intends to force us apart

2. And they threatened and punish my boyfriend for something he didn't do wrong 

"I will not help you in future if the school wants to expel you. So you better get good grades"

-- by a teacher in the school.

Credits to the young couple who took the photo for us. (They were in their 20s, working adults)

Well, let me go straight to the point.

I recently found out that Temasek Junior College DOES NOT ALLOW students to forge relationships that are intimate.

WHICH in other words, gals and guys, you CANNOT hold hands with your best friends, hug, or even do any gestures of affection which are PRIVATE & PERSONAL.

CASE STUDY:

a guy touched a girl's head or hair.

The teacher of TJC: "you should restraint yourselves and not do such things. Disciplinary actions will follow the next time I catch you"

HAHA people, and I thought my parents were conservative.

Well, you implement your lousy ideas/cultures in your own boring and dull life, but do not force it upon your students?

This were the meanings I have  found in the dictionary that I guess was most suitable (but yet STILL ridiculous) to penalize the students for.

THIS implies that your relationships must either be the most fundamental of relationships, or just "classmates" or "schoolmates".

Here comes the important message.

Quoting from the teacher of the school, having the above relationship with anyone shows that YOU HAVE NO VALUES.

So calling out to Americans who are proud of your girlfriends/ boyfriends or relationships, CALLING OUT TO ALL TEENAGERS WHO give warm hugs to your peers, it is too bad you do not have values.

I will be fair and give the school the benefit of the doubt, that after all , PERHAPS they are deserving of the "good reputation" they would protect at all costs.

Say, perhaps they weren't unreasonable like I mentioned in the above. (I must be ridiculous) 

Perhaps their take on intimacy is:

That's reasonable right? Sexual behaviors should not be tolerated in schools or OUTSIDE schools for that matter, especially in school attire.

I absolutely agree.

Well if my current interpretation of the school rule is right, well then they OBVIOUSLY fail to teach their staff on how to CORRECTLY implement the school rules.

The above, is a letter of complaint filed by, as you can see, a very "wise" middle aged adult (a HOD of the school). 

P.S He was also an outstanding adult that does not understand the law the protects us against "invasion of privacy" and "harrasment".

If you were too lazy to read the above, let me summarize the absurd letter.

Firstly, I was an outsider to the school. Secondly, the venue of what happened was also OUTSIDE the school compounds.

Me and my boyfriend were having a casual lunch during his lunch break.

Let me emphasize that we were both students aged 17, and it was OUTSIDE the school compounds.

According to the HOD himself, he approached us to warn us, telling us to exercise self-restraint.

He obviously got the wrong side of things, we are not entirely sure who's the dog here that needs a leash.

He himself identified ALL of our actions during our LUNCH MEAL.

He took the word "harassment" to a whole new level. (He so proudly identified himself as a HOD too.)

 

1)He disturbed us by approaching us and speaking to us in a demanding and unpleasant tone.

2) he pestered us by seating himself nearby and gave us troubling looks and watched us repeatedly.  (In fact, it wasn't repeatedly, it was continuously or in simple terms THE WHOLE TIME)

Talk about "weird uncles".

We had no privacy throughout our lunch.

Or I should say, lunches.

He came AGAIN, on another day.

He did exactly the same thing, but this time, he ... Let me quote him using his exact words, you will understand my concern towards the sanity of this man.

"This is the second time I have CAUGHT you. just incase you didn't know, i am a HOD of your school. Please show me your IC"

So he himself has identified all our SMALL GESTURES and have stated ALL of them in the letter. 

That man was relentless.

basically, he invaded our privacy, AND self righteously harassed us then PROCEED TO COMPLAIN.

Trust me, I was stupefied when he identified himself as a HOD of the school.

I would never have known.

In his letter, he mentioned his concerns.

1. STOMP

Guys, what is stomp? It is a website used by immature people to "expose" or "publicize" shocking behaviors. 

Who uses stomp and what is the purpose of this site? Does it have a legal educative purpose, or is it a prevention measure against unacceptable behaviors? 

Or is it merely a site that any persons who decides to witness an episode of drama or anyone who tries to earn a little cash (that was what I heard), could use it to their own benefits, regardless good or bad?

A HOD of the school actually entertains such sites? He actually fears the school reputation would be as weak as to be ruined by such sites?

Anyway, in this situation, his actions probably amount to more value in STOMP. 

Here's a STOMP photo:

Even I can't be bothered my people like this oh, and he called himself an educator. (The HOD is probably not such a rare species)

2. Complaint

Does the school actually entertain ALL complaints? Are all complaints reasonable? Well I didn't know the school doesn't have a backbone (according to your HOD), as they admit to the faults anyone accuse them of committing.

Let's say if my mom complains to the school  saying:

"WHY DIDNT YOU TEACH MY SON, A STUDENT OF YOURS, NOT TO HAVE A GIRLFRIEND?!"

So will the school actually tell the parent

"Oh I'm so sorry, I'll take actions immediately and send a watch team to your son 24/7. We will ensure he has no girlfriend whether inside, or outside school"

My point is:

Will he actually entertain such complaints? He probably would, because he agrees with the complaint.

"Great" minds think alike, don't they?

How do complains spoil the image of the school.

Especially in such cases, when the complain is invalid? Our actions as he has so "kindly" listed out, were far from inappropriate.

And we are 17. if the public didn't understand that the students were responsible of their own actions OUTSIDE of school, they are pretty immature.

And to entertain their complains, the school has only shown that they too agree they should keep a watch of students outside the school compounds and they are responsible of what they think or do OUTSIDE of school? 

If the school actually believes it would be able to tarnish their reputation, then it probably would.

As long as they are wearing their school attire they become a student and when they're not they aren't anymore?

Then I was wondering, the school has a prestigious reputation don't they? 

Why did a Head Of Dumb-people (HOD) actually exist in the school?

Then I realize my boyfriend's form teacher was pretty much worst.

IF my boyfriend had heard her correctly, which he would have,

His form teacher implied that we were desperate and she said

"You craved each other physically so much that you can do this in public"

Why were we condemned by her just because we showed each other love by small touches and gestures. They were as innocent as the touching of hands or holding hands!

WHAT HAS BECOME OF THE GENERATION OF ADULTS? (Or perhaps it's just Temasek junior college)

This is an article obtained online. I am obviously not the only one who thinks our actions aren't inappropriate or unacceptable.

The link of the blog is also there, if you wanna view it.

I obtained another opinion from online too.

Basically? I have proven my point.

That H.O.D should learn to respect himself and others. He should mind his own business.

And to the form teacher who later said that

"If you are expelled, I wouldn't help you" - to my boyfriend, I hope you realize we do not need or want the help of someone as closed minded and unreasonable as you.

How were our actions overboard? 

BREACH OF THE SCHOOL RULES?

Remember I gave the school the benefit of the doubt? That their "prestigious" reputation was deserving by them?

I was wrong. Wrong is an understatement.

The school did the following.

1) threaten to suspend and EXPEL my boyfriend for what we did in the hawker centre. (Within our rights)

2)forced him into writing a termination letter to terminate our relationship, prevent us from meeting AROUND the school compounds, which means OUTSIDE the school. If caught, expelled.

Need I say more?

It is no wonder that my boyfriend misses his school dearly. 

His only school he'll be proud of: 

Victoria School

My boyfriend is a person who would be thankful and proud of his own school. 

THANKFULLY? VS is holding an event and he could get a break of the hell hole he's in.

Ofcourse, only IF the school deserved his loyalty.

Let's not bother ourselves over that school.

I won't even listen to their ridiculous rules and requirements.

Do me a favor, help me spread this story:

 If people wanted to go to Temasek Junior college, they should be NUNs and MONKs.

Sorry, TJC, I'm not a nun. 

And according to one of your teachers, I do not have values, because I was touching my boyfriend's hand.

Ask me anything or tell me any of your comments if need be people.

They threatened my boyfriend with expulsion and suspension.

I wanted to ask your opinions.

"You from VS ah? Your standard don't look like" --- what his teacher said. (My boyfriend was a very proud Victorian)

Please tell which standards of a teacher does she posses? Verbally abusing a student , being personal about them.

Excuse me woman, HE IS FROM THE SCHOOL no matter how that fact upsets you. 

Keep your mouth shut and act like a teacher.

Ask.fm: @qtpx

I would like to say that this post is bothe drafted and posted by me, no other person involved. I fully recognize the fact that I cannot go against an entire organization, the above is just a recount. None of my words should be taken personally as we can all agree to a disagree.

Lastly, I wish to bring down no one. If a comment is unpleasant, it is only because I'm angry.

Thank you for reading people.

22 May 2015

Singapore

Reckless for you

Thank you my dear boy, for being the most reckless you've ever been in your entire life, for me.

This post is going to be a short one.

I will spare you guys of the details of my love life.

I love this picture because it shows exactly how I always feel when I'm around him.

Just wanted to tell you people whose in a relationship or even, single:

Sometimes, we lose control.

Everyone loses control.

It's okay to lose control of your life.

What you have to do is get back on track.

My boyfriend and I, we splurged without thinking. We spent his mother's money and mine too, without restricting ourselves.

I'm ashamed to say, we've spent so much that his mom was devastated when she found out.

Let's just say yesterday wasn't the best day.

His mom was so shocked and she didn't react very well.

I admit so, I'm immature. Maybe, my mom is right, the commenters in my previous posts were right too.

I'm probably immature. I probably ain't capable of handling a relationship well.

Actually, I already created chaos out of my boyfriends smooth sailing life.

And I said I loved him.

I'm definitely going to hell

But, no one ever said that immature retards cannot sincerely love another?

I would give anything at all to fix his problems for him.

This guy who gave me nothing but a wider smile, a better every day.

He taught me that no matter how things were, we will always remain the same as long as we both want it.

It's the same for everyone. 

It's your life, you call the shots.

I know I've done damage to your life and I'm sorry.

I'm so so sorry when I see your one tear, one tear is enough to shatter every little broken piece of my heart into way smaller pieces.

I'm so sorry for every frown caused.

But I'm not sorry for all the times you've been reckless for me.

I can't be sorry for those time you've done things you never did in your life. You've taken a jump, a shot at courage and recklessness.

You've given me a world where love stories do actually exist.

And I really do love you.

I feel it in my bones.

You know baby?

I've never fancied cute, until I me you: cute is my favourite word.

17 May 2015

Singapore 

My life, and probably... Yours

"How's life"

I get asked this a lot.  i cannot emphasize how annoying it is when you know that the answer will fall on deaf ears (unless ofcourse you've an amazing "story" to tell). It's one of those questions that was asked out of a routine and people don't really wait for an answer... Or do they?

Whatever.

Well I'm gonna just say that my life has been difficult.

New me, NEW LIFE?

Not gonna happen.

no matter how great a downfall i received, how painful any experience was,

I'd still be me.

With a horrible life to deal with, with parents to hate.

Before my school had even begun, my life decided to have a twisted sense of humor.

I lost my MacBook.

I was so stressed to think of how to prevent my parents from murdering me.

I saved and planned.

Bought a new secondhand MacBook; Oh the irony is not lost on me.

That macbook's condition was -1/10.

I ended up getting a scolding and having to buy a new laptop anyways.

How cool.

Since I haven't blogged about my life for a long time, here goes.

I've been learning to cook for that boyfriend of mine.

He has a really picky tongue that guy.

Shopping for the beef (this place stinks okay).

First time I've ever stepped into a market in hopes of getting a good buy.

What even, is a good buy?

This is a must right?

Everyone has to tear while cooking once.

Yay, I had it ticked off my bucket list.

Making the marinade/sauce.

Frying the beef.

And then...

The moment of revelation.

My boyfriend's favourite meat was the beef.

This has to be good.

And it turns out,

Perfect.

The way I imagined it to be.

My mom who usually enjoyed discouraging me, asked for the recipe.

She asked for more.

So did anyone that tried a bite of it.

I'm so excited to have my boyfriend try it.

But I'm so afraid he wouldn't like it. I would cry. 

I want to make a good girlfriend and he really has to like it.

But even if he doesn't, he'll still tell me thank you.

Because he's the sweetest boyfriend <3

Next up on my list were prawns.

These were difficult to buy.

It's expensive and painful.

Live prawns.

Look at the way I hold them at a distance.

Gingerly.

I got the prawns peeled.

I had to slice their intestines out.

My boy's favourite seafood.

First cook.

It probably looked nice and tasted great too.

But the sauce wasn't supposed to be black.

I overcooked the garlic :P

So I tasted charred garlic which covers the aroma of the prawns.

Hence,

My second attempt.

I couldn't hold off my cooking any longer.

I've decided to let my boy try the prawns.

His comments were that it tasted good but too soft (as I've had to deliver it from home to his house)

And there was too much garlic as you could probably see from the picture.

Otherwise, he was impressed. (I think)

YAYYYYYY.

Soon, the beef. Very soon.

School was great but the workload is unexpectedly heavy.

Meeting the boy after school even for awhile, would be the perks of my days.

I even supported the boy at his first taekwondo competition.

Another tick off my bucket list.

And he won a medal.

He has given me that medal he has trained so hard for.

Thank you.

I would give you my first too <3

That would be it.

to my boyfriend:
"Youve been the perfect version of imperfection"

even if you've hurt me deeply, i love you more, if not the same.

2 May 2015

Singapore